Truth or Dare Over Text

Nothing to show and nothing to prove — these work in a message thread exactly as well as they work in a room.

1. Do you prefer me straight from the gym or straight from the shower?
2. Do you still think about anyone from before me?
3. Dominant or submissive — with me?
4. Have you ever checked my phone?
5. Have you ever compared me to someone?
6. Have you ever had a dream about me? Full details.
7. Have you ever lied to me? About what?
8. How would you introduce me to your parents?
9. How would you want to be proposed to?
10. If we weren't together, how would you make the first move?
11. What did you forgive me for that I don't know about?
12. What did you nearly not do that would have meant we never met?
13. What did you really think the first time you saw me?
14. What did you tell your friends about me that first week?
15. What do I do in my sleep that you've never mentioned?
16. What do I do that makes you feel most loved?
17. What do I do when I'm upset that you've learned to read?
18. What do you brag about me for?
19. What do you love most about my body?
20. What do you not tell people about us?
21. What do you notice first when I walk into a room?
22. What do you think about on the way home to me?
23. What does your dream wedding look like?
24. What first attracted you to me?
25. What have I said to you that you've kept?
26. What have you kept of mine that I don't know about?
27. What have you never asked me because you'd rather not know?
28. What have you wanted to try and not brought up?
29. What have your friends actually said about me?
30. What memory of us do you not talk about, and why?
31. What memory of us do you replay most?
32. What outfit of mine do you think about?
33. What outfit of mine do you want me to wear more often?
34. What roleplay would you genuinely want to try?
35. What song reminds you of me?
36. What sound do you like hearing from me?
37. What was your last dream about me?
38. What was your worst first date, before me?
39. What were you doing the hour before we met?
40. What would our perfect weekend look like, hour by hour?
41. What would you do to me right now if nobody was watching?
42. What would you do with a whole day of me saying yes?
43. What would you say if I asked you out today?
44. What would you want me to wear tonight, given the choice?
45. What's a fantasy you've never told me?
46. What's my most annoying habit that you secretly love?
47. What's one thing I do that makes your heart melt?
48. What's one thing you only do when I'm not around?
49. What's one thing you were nervous to tell me early on?
50. What's something you'd never say out loud but absolutely want?
51. What's something you've never asked me because you were shy?
52. What's the best date we've had?
53. What's the best kiss we've ever had?
54. What's the best morning we've had?
55. What's the best ordinary day we've had?
56. What's the biggest secret you've kept from me?
57. What's the closest you've come to walking away?
58. What's the dirtiest thing you'd like me to do?
59. What's the first thing you'd do if we had the house to ourselves?
60. What's the funniest thing that's ever happened to us?
61. What's the hottest thing I've ever said to you?
62. What's the hottest thing you've thought and never said?
63. What's the kindest thing I've done that I probably forgot?
64. What's the most attractive thing about my personality?
65. What's the most jealous you've ever been about me?
66. What's the most romantic thing I've ever done for you?
67. What's the most romantic thing you've done for me?
68. What's the most spontaneous thing we've ever done?
69. What's the one place you want to see with me?
70. What's the safest you've ever felt with me?
71. What's the strangest thing you find attractive about me?
72. What's your biggest fear about our relationship?
73. What's your darkest fantasy?
74. What's your favourite memory of us that I might not remember?
75. What's your favourite photo of me that I hate?
76. What's your favourite photo of us?
77. What's your favourite thing I do without being asked?
78. What's your favourite thing about my face?
79. What's your favourite thing about waking up next to me?
80. What's your favourite way I say your name?
81. When did I last genuinely surprise you?
82. When did you first picture a future with me in it?
83. When did you first realise you were attracted to me?
84. When did you know you loved me?
85. When did you know you were falling for me?
86. When do you least want to be touched, and do I know?
87. When do you want me most?
88. When were you most proud of me?
89. Where do you look first when I walk in?
90. Where's the craziest place you'd want to take me?
91. Which celebrity would you have one night with?
92. Which celebrity would you let me have one night with?
93. Which fantasy would you want to try tonight?
94. Which film scene would you want us to recreate?
95. Which of your exes would you least want me to meet?
96. Which part of me turns you on instantly?
97. Which part of me would you kiss right now, given the choice?
98. Have you ever re-read old messages with a crush?
99. Have you ever texted your ex after swearing you wouldn't?
100. What are your rules for a long-distance relationship?
101. What's a text you wish you'd sent much sooner?
102. What's the boldest thing you've ever sent and not taken back?
103. What's the most flirtatious text you've ever sent?
104. What's the most romantic thing you've ever said over text?
105. Do you want to be told what to do tonight, or to tell me?
106. Have you ever cried because of me and hidden it?
107. Have you ever faked liking a gift from me? Which one?
108. Have you ever kept something of an ex's? What is it?
109. Have you ever looked up one of my exes online?
110. Have you ever pretended to be asleep to avoid a conversation with me?
111. Have you ever read something of mine you shouldn't have?
112. Have you ever secretly disliked something I love?
113. Have you ever wanted me and not said anything? When?
114. How do you want to be held when you're sad?
115. How would you want to be seduced tonight, step by step?
116. If you wrote me a letter to open in ten years, what would the first line be?
117. What about me gets better the longer you know me?
118. What could I wear that would end this game early?
119. What did I do on our first date that you still think about?
120. What did you tell yourself the night you met me?
121. What did you think our first fight would be about, and what was it actually?
122. What do you do when I'm away that you wouldn't do with me here?
123. What do you love about how I treat your family?
124. What do you want me to do first the next time we're alone?
125. What do you want me to do the next time you cry?
126. What do you want our home to smell like?
127. What do you want us to be like when we're seventy?
128. What do you wish I understood about you without being told?
129. What have you Googled about me?
130. What have you told your best friend about us that I don't know you told?
131. What promise do you want to make me tonight?
132. What song do you want played at our wedding, or our next anniversary?
133. What would you want me to do if you were ill for a month?
134. What's a compliment about your body you want from me?
135. What's a compliment you wish I'd give you more?
136. What's a doubt you had about us that you never said?
137. What's a dream you've quietly given up that I could help bring back?
138. What's a fantasy of yours that involves me and nobody else?
139. What's a fear about the future that you haven't told me?
140. What's a fear about yourself you've never told me?
141. What's a habit you hide from me?
142. What's a lie you told me in our first month?
143. What's a little lie you've told to protect my feelings?
144. What's a message you've deleted so I wouldn't see it?
145. What's a morning of ours you'd relive?
146. What's a night with me you still think about?
147. What's a place that's ours now?
148. What's a place you want me to kiss that I don't kiss enough?
149. What's a purchase you hid from me?
150. What's a secret you've kept from me because it seemed too small to mention?
151. What's a small ritual of ours you'd never give up?
152. What's a thought about my family you've never said out loud?
153. What's a way I love you that you didn't expect?
154. What's a wish you've made about us?
155. What's one thing I did this month that you never thanked me for?
156. What's one thing you need to hear from me after a bad day?
157. What's one thing you want us to do every single year?
158. What's one thing you'd want me to do with my mouth tonight?
159. What's one thing you'd want me to say to you tonight, in the dark?
160. What's one way I could love you better this week?
161. What's something I believe about myself that you know isn't true?
162. What's something you did before we met that you're scared to tell me?
163. What's something you pretend not to notice about me?
164. What's something you want to try with me that you've been too shy to say?
165. What's something you want us to learn together?
166. What's something you're embarrassed about that I don't know?
167. What's something you've done for me that you never told me about?
168. What's something you've done this year that I still don't know about?
169. What's something you've never admitted you were wrong about?
170. What's something you've never told me about your past relationships?
171. What's the best thing I've ever cooked or brought you, and why did it matter?
172. What's the closest you came to not telling me something big?
173. What's the hardest thing you've ever told me, and how did I do?
174. What's the kindest thing you've done for me that I never found out about?
175. What's the last thing I did that made you fall a little harder?
176. What's the last thing you thought about me that would make me blush?
177. What's the longest you've waited for me to make a move?
178. What's the moment this week you felt closest to me?
179. What's the most 'us' thing we do?
180. What's the most loved you've ever felt, and was I there?

Written for players who are not together. The ones that ask you to show something want a camera, so those land better on a video call than in a thread.

1. Act out how we met, playing both of us.
2. Answer everything with a compliment for one full round.
3. Ask me for something filthy in your politest voice.
4. Beg me for something. Convincingly.
5. Bite into something slowly with the camera on you.
6. Bite your lip once, deliberately, and carry on talking.
7. Blindfold yourself and describe exactly what you'd want me doing.
8. Blindfold yourself and stay that way until your next turn.
9. Change into whatever I pick and come back.
10. Change my contact name to something filthy for a week.
11. Change my name in your phone right now. Show me.
12. Compliment me for 30 seconds without stopping.
13. Crawl towards the camera as slowly as you can manage.
14. Dance for me for one whole song. Camera stays on.
15. Dedicate a song to me, out loud, right now.
16. Describe how it feels when I touch you. Your words, no euphemisms.
17. Describe my body to me from memory. All of it.
18. Describe our first meeting from your side, start to finish.
19. Describe our wedding in 30 seconds.
20. Describe what you want tonight in one sentence.
21. Describe what you want tonight without naming anything.
22. Describe what you'd be doing right now if I were there. Full detail.
23. Describe what you'd do to me if we were alone right now.
24. Do a 30-second seductive dance and keep a completely straight face.
25. Do your best belly dance for me.
26. Dry hump a pillow and commit fully.
27. Eat a piece of fruit as attractively as you can.
28. Eat something on camera the way you'd feed it to me.
29. Give me a compliment you've never given anyone else.
30. Give me a weather forecast in your best bedroom voice.
31. Give me one compliment you've been saving.
32. Hold an ice cube against you for as long as you can stand it.
33. Hold an ice cube in your mouth until it melts completely.
34. Hold eye contact with me on camera for 60 seconds. No talking.
35. Let me pick your outfit for our next date.
36. Look straight down the lens and tell me what you'd do if I walked in.
37. Mark on yourself exactly where you want me to begin.
38. Name our future kids or pets, right now, out loud.
39. Name the fantasy we're doing next.
40. Narrate the last time we were together in as much detail as you remember.
41. Play the song that reminds you most of me.
42. Promise me one thing out loud and mean it.
43. Propose to me as dramatically as you possibly can.
44. Put on the thing you know I like and come back to the camera.
45. Put your hand where you want mine and leave it there for a full minute.
46. Read me a love letter you make up on the spot.
47. Read me something filthy out loud, on camera, without breaking.
48. Read out our very first message exchange.
49. Read the steamiest passage in any book here, in your best voice.
50. Record a 15-second video telling me why you chose me.
51. Reenact our first kiss.
52. Run an ice cube over your skin wherever you'd want mine.
53. Run your fingers where you'd want me to start, and don't stop until I say.
54. Say 'I love you' in the horniest voice you own.
55. Say 'I love you' like you mean it more than you ever have.
56. Say goodnight the way you'd say it if I were lying next to you.
57. Say something that would make me blush in public.
58. Say the dirtiest sentence you can, in your best voice, in one take.
59. Say the last thing that made you want me.
60. Say the thing you always think but never say.
61. Say the thing you've been building up to all night.
62. Say what you love about me without using the word love.
63. Say what you want out loud, without softening a word of it.
64. Say what you'd do if we had two hours and no phones.
65. Say what you'd want me to do while you watched.
66. Send me a message so bold you'd normally delete it.
67. Send me a photo of what you're wearing, from the angle you like best.
68. Send me a photo the way you'd send it at 2am.
69. Send me a voice note. Say my name and nothing else.
70. Send me the photo you nearly sent last week.
71. Serenade me with a song of your choice.
72. Set an alarm labelled with what you want to do to me.
73. Show me exactly how you kiss, using the back of your hand.
74. Show me how you'd kiss me right now.
75. Show me how you'd propose for real.
76. Show me the first photo of me you ever saved.
77. Show me the last thing that turned you on.
78. Show me the part of you you'd want me looking at.
79. Show me the photo of me you look at most.
80. Show me the thing you do when you're thinking about me.
81. Show me what you're sleeping in tonight.
82. Show me where you want my hands, using your own.
83. Show me your favourite part of yourself and tell me why it's that one.
84. Show me your hands doing what you'd do to me.
85. Sing me the chorus of our song.
86. Slow dance for the camera with no music at all.
87. Spell out what you want using only emojis.
88. Take a photo of me the way you see me.
89. Take a photo of us right now. It's your lock screen.
90. Take off exactly what I tell you to. One item.
91. Talk me through tonight, start to finish, as if it's happening.
92. Talk me through your favourite memory of us, slowly.
93. Tell me one thing I do that you'd never want me to stop.
94. Tell me one thing you've never complimented me on.
95. Tell me something you have never told anyone.
96. Tell me the dirtiest thing you're thinking, word for word.
97. Tell me the filthiest thought you've had about me this week.
98. Tell me the first thing you'd do if I walked in right now.
99. Tell me the thing you're most grateful for about us.
100. Tell me the three moments you fell hardest.
101. Tell me three things you find irresistible about me.
102. Tell me what I smell like, honestly.
103. Tell me what I was wearing the last time you missed me.
104. Tell me what I was wearing when we met.
105. Tell me what you want me to do first, second and third.
106. Tell me what you were thinking the first time you saw me.
107. Tell me what you'd say about me in a room I wasn't in.
108. Tell me where to start and don't stop talking until I say.
109. Tell me where you'd take me if money didn't exist.
110. Tell me which photo of me you go back to. Then send it to me.
111. Tell me your plan for the next time we're alone.
112. Tell the story of us like a bedtime story.
113. Text me something you'd be embarrassed for anyone else to read.
114. Trace your name on your own skin and make me guess where.
115. Turn around slowly, once.
116. Wear an outfit of my choosing for the rest of the game.
117. Wear my perfume for the rest of the night.
118. Whisper for the rest of your turn.
119. Whisper into the mic the thing you'd whisper in my ear.
120. Whisper some genuinely dirty talk in my ear.
121. Whisper something you'd never say in front of anyone else.
122. Whisper the boldest thing you're thinking right now.
123. Write me a two-line poem and read it out.
124. You have 60 seconds to tell me everything you want. Go.
125. Change into what you'd wear if we were going to bed early tonight.
126. Close your eyes and let me tell you what I love about your face.
127. Decide our next three dates out loud. Each one different.
128. Describe how you'd want me to kiss you right now.
129. Describe me at my most attractive, in detail.
130. Describe me to my younger self so they'd stop worrying.
131. Describe our first year as a film trailer.
132. Describe our future home, room by room.
133. Give me a nickname just for tonight. Use it every turn.
134. Let me choose what you sleep in tonight.
135. Look at me for 30 seconds, then say the first true thing that comes.
136. Look through our photos and show me the one you'd frame.
137. Name one thing I could do tomorrow that would make your day.
138. Plan our anniversary out loud. It's happening.
139. Point to three places you want to be kissed tonight. In order.
140. Read me the first message you ever sent me, in the voice you meant it.
141. Read me the last text I sent that made you smile.
142. Recreate the way you looked at me on our first date.
143. Say goodnight to me the way you'd want it said to you.
144. Say my name the way you say it when you want me.
145. Say one thing you'll do differently this week, for us.
146. Say sorry for something small you never apologised for.
147. Say the thing I'm always fishing for you to say.
148. Say what you'd say in your vows, right now, unrehearsed.
149. Say what you'd want written on the last page of our story.
150. Send me a photo of something that made you think of me this week.
151. Send me a photo of the part of you I never stop staring at.
152. Send me a voice note saying what you want tonight.
153. Show me how you'd want me to touch your hair.
154. Sing me one line of any song, badly, while looking at me.
155. Swap seats with me and say what you'd say if you were me tonight.
156. Take a photo of me right now, the way you'd want me to look tonight.
157. Tell me a memory of us you've never told anyone else.
158. Tell me one thing you need from me right now. Then let me do it.
159. Tell me one thing you want me to keep doing forever.
160. Tell me one thing you've forgiven me for. Right now, out loud.
161. Tell me one worry you've been carrying, and let me answer it.
162. Tell me the last time I made you laugh until it hurt.
163. Tell me the thing you'd only say with the lights off.
164. Tell me the thing you'd whisper to me at someone else's wedding.
165. Tell me three things about me that you'd tell a stranger first.
166. Tell me what you love about the way I love you.
167. Tell me what you want to happen in the next hour, minute by minute.
168. Tell me what you want tonight, in a whisper, in three words.
169. Tell me what you'd do if the power went out right now.
170. Tell me what you'd want me to say in a speech about you.
171. Tell me what you'd want our Sunday to look like if I got no say.
172. Tell me where you want my hands tonight, and in what order.
173. Tell me your favourite thing I did today.
174. Thank me for three things I did this week that you never mentioned.
175. Whisper into the mic the first thing you'd take off me.
176. Write down one thing you want us to do this year. It goes on the fridge.
177. Write my name and one word you'd put beside it. Show me.
178. Choose the song for our first dance and play ten seconds of it.
179. Describe our life in five years as if it's already happened.
180. Give me the look you gave me the first time you wanted me.

Take turns. The other person asks truth or dare, you pick, and they send you a card. A truth you answer honestly in the thread; a dare you do and then send proof — a photo, a screenshot or a voice note. Agree before you start that a screenshot counts, so nobody argues about whether it happened.

The ones where the proof is something you can send. Screenshot your most recent search, record a voice note singing the chorus of a song you are embarrassed by, let the other person write your next message. Anything that needs an audience in the room does not travel.

Yes, and it is the better version. On a call you get tone and reaction, which is most of the game, and dares that ask you to show or do something suddenly work. Open a room on this site, share the link, and keep the call running beside it — everyone sees the same card at the same time.

Truth or dare holds up better than most because it already runs on turns and one prompt at a time. The Couples deck here has a version of nearly every card written for a camera rather than a shared sofa, so the deck does not shrink just because you are apart.

If you turn call mode on, yes. The host flips one switch in the room lobby and the deck drops every card that assumes you are sitting together. It is off by default, because most games are played in one room.

Yes. Reading the lists is free, playing is free, and joining someone else's room needs no account and nothing to install. Only the person creating the room needs a free account.